How to become a beloved wife for a husband. Create harmony in relationships, and not just please your husband. Expressions of love and affection

How to become a good wife, mistress, mistress and mother? Find out lots of tips. We reveal typical mistakes wives whose husbands immediately leave.

Do you want to become a good wife and mistress for your husband? Actually, it's easy. The most important thing is to be ready to admit your mistakes and have an incentive to change.

First you need to pay attention to the shortcomings that imperfect women make every day:

1. controversy. Do you prove you are right or do you make sure that your word is the last? So, you constantly humiliate the dignity of your man. Such wives are not good, whatever they have done there ...
2. obstinacy. If you want to do as you wish, you can forget about a happy and peaceful family life.
3. Self-care attitude. Do you only clean up when you leave the house? Congratulations! Your husband is already eyeing other women!
4. Discontent. Is your husband something bad for you? There will be one who will rejoice in him, not paying attention to his shortcoming.
5. little attention. Are you in a hurry to do all the things as soon as possible, and push your spouse away when he gets in your way? One kiss and couple kind words at such moments, they would definitely eliminate 30% of all your scandals. And even more.
6. Error indication. Your husband is wrong in many ways, and you are not embarrassed to talk about it? Do not think that this is sincerity and honesty. It is nonsense. Big.

Analyze your behavior: what else do you think is unpleasant for your husband? To make it easier - put yourself in his place. Be honest with yourself, because now no one hears your thoughts.

Important!
Only one who knows that she is imperfect can become an ideal wife. This is what gives her the opportunity to strive for the best.

How to be a good wife

Look after yourself

Many argue that you need to constantly do a beautiful hairstyle, draw makeup and walk exclusively in heels - on weekends, at home - always! No, not necessarily.

The main thing is that your appearance is completely well-groomed: your hair is combed, your teeth are brushed, your eyebrows are plucked, your nails are made up, etc. It's really easy to maintain.

And as for spectacular images (beautifully styled hair, bright and attractive outfit, etc.), all this does not have to be resorted to every day. This will not only save you time and energy, but will also make your husband admire from time to time when you use such techniques.

But, of course, it should not be once every six months, but much more often. Only at these moments, be sure to say that all this is only for him alone.

Develop

• give preference not to serials, but to educational programs;
• read interesting articles on topics that you could then discuss with your spouse;
• spend your leisure time on a good book;
• set goals for yourself and go to them;
• change outwardly, find more suitable images for yourself - this is also a kind of development.

Important!
Be sure to tell your husband about your developmental achievements. Otherwise, there will be no point in your efforts. He simply will not see this, which means he will not appreciate it.

Create comfort

Nobody wants to live in a mess. There is such a trend - the more comfortable in the house, the better mood. Even in people who seemingly do not pay attention to the mess.
“I didn’t have time”, “I’m tired” - these are excuses that husbands do not like.

Remember: it's better to do a little every day than to save up a mess to clean up over the weekend.

Well, or there is still a tricky way out: if you “dodge” from business, then do it competently - so that your husband is pleased (lying with him, stroke him, do a massage, etc.).

be wise

Never argue with a man. Remember: he is never wrong! Just for you! He just has a point of view. And it will be better for you if you start thinking the same way.

And in order to come to this, in a conversation with your husband, ask more, and do not assert.

• Now he is angry? Don't tell him he's always in a bad mood and you're sick of it! Better hug and tell him how much you love him.
• Today he again did not do what he promised? Do not rush to "saw" it. Better with a smile and in the form of a joke, say something like: “I know who forgot to do something (what business) ...”

Change

“Love me for who I am” - this phrase is common among ... single women or divorcees. If your man asks you to change - do not resist. So he makes you an ideal woman for himself, from whom there will be no point in leaving.

One girl wrote that her boyfriend constantly demanded something from her: “Change your hair color to such and such!”, “Don’t forget to clean up!”, “Don’t behave like that in public!” etc. It would seem that he is a bore, and there is no end to this. The girl almost dropped her hands, as the guy told her: “Now you are perfect, and I won’t let you go anywhere!”.

Changing for the sake of a loved one is not spineless, but a smart approach. It is he who will help to settle a calm atmosphere and love in the house. After all, if the wife meets all the basic requirements and is not annoying, how can you swear with her?

Respect and appreciate your spouse

This paragraph implies several rules:

1. Don't insult. Unless, of course, you want a response.
2. Don't say that his thoughts or ideas are funny/stupid/unreasonable. Here better questions find out why he decided to act this way, whether this or that fact will prevent him, etc.
3. Don't argue. Let your man remain right for you. Think about it, maybe there really is logic in his words?
4. Always support his side. Especially in front of people. Keep silent if you do not agree with him, and then, at home, when you are alone, ask why he thinks this way - act cunningly.
5. Pay attention not to the shortcomings of the husband but on its merits. The first kills love, and the second helps to strengthen it. Always look for the good in everything, justify it to yourself - this is how you learn to appreciate your man.

Praise success

Is your spouse good at something? Don't be indifferent! After all, he is waiting for your joy for his success! By receiving this, he will become attached to you even more.

Praise can also make a man a little better. For example, if you like the way he does something, focus on it. He will definitely want to listen to your kind words again, so he will do the same again.

But, if something suddenly went wrong with him, support him with affection, say that he will definitely achieve everything (just don’t overplay, otherwise you risk getting the opposite effect from your efforts), offer options for getting out of this situation.

Dignified Behavior

A wife is the pride of a man. Agree, there will be no peace in the family if a woman behaves somehow inappropriately. This will lead not only to scandals, but also to the unwillingness of the husband to go somewhere together.

To prevent this from happening, adhere to the following rules:

• do not flirt with other men;
• don't make a fuss;
• don't swear;
• be humble;
• smile;
• do not try to show yourself smarter than the rest, especially your husband;
• don't argue;
• do not express your opinion until you are asked about it.

In general, stick to the principle: "I look from the side, blink my eyes, smile and think about how to hold the fork correctly." And habalk women who try to get into any male conversation always cause negativity on the part of others, and such behavior becomes the result of the husband’s bashfully lowered eyes.

Plan a family budget

It is very important to be an economical wife! Men don't like spenders. To become one, you need:

• give up many of your desires (shopping);
• affectionately and discreetly asking for permission to make any purchase intended only for you;
• warn of upcoming large expenses;
• together discuss the need for certain purchases;
• do not buy too expensive products and everything that you can do without today.

If you take good care of money, your husband will definitely appreciate it!

But in cases where a spouse buys something for himself without warning you (for example, accessories for a car), do not start to “nag” him, but calmly say that it would be better if he warned you in advance so that you were able to re-budget.

The Geisha Principle

One of the common mistakes a wife makes is not giving a damn about her husband. appearance when she is at home. Remember, you tried to make up your eyes as evenly as possible and put on your best outfit to impress your husband? Don't let this go to waste!

Your goal is not to win other men, but to keep yours. After all, if he always sees you in an old bathrobe, he will have a desire to find a woman in a sexy dress. And as you know, it will not be you ...

bed territory

Sex between spouses is also very important. Often it is because of sexual dissatisfaction that a man gets annoyed with his wife during the day. How to fuel your love with sexual relationships? You need to be a good lover for him.

Here, remember the following rules:

1. Don't deny your husband sex! Never! If you do not want this process (and “appetite” wakes up in women much less often), it is unacceptable to make it a hindrance. You must be available to your husband at all times. Even when you are tired or you have a fight. The frigidity of the wife will always be the result of the irritability of the spouse, his nit-picking and - obviously - cheating. In rare cases, there may still be refusals, but this must be said kindly and tenderly: do not “Leave me alone! I'm busy right now!", and "Honey, maybe not now? I'm just a little busy…". And yes, the fact that a man wants sex is not a problem. The problem is when you don't want to...
2. Come up with something new. To do this, you can read relevant articles, watch tutorials, etc. Order sexy lingerie in an online store - surprise your husband. Offer sex in an unusual place.
3. Follow his sexual fantasies. Pay attention to all his hints and "as if jokes" on the subject of bed. All this he wants to do with you. Become perfection for him, and then it will not make sense for him to look at the side.

How to be a good mom

It should be borne in mind that a good wife does not forget about children. To combine the roles of an ideal spouse and mother, you must:

1. Make time for children. Do not brush them off by hurrying to do something as soon as possible. If you give your child 5 minutes of attention while doing housework, you will not suffer much from this. Do not forget to also play with them and walk. It is highly desirable to involve the husband in this (by persuasion and tenderness, but not by claims!). It will be great if you engage in the comprehensive development of the child: organize his classes in sections and circles. Only without fanaticism!
2. Be an affectionate mother. To do this, it is enough to love your children and not raise your voice at them. In most cases, calmly explaining the whole situation to the child is much more effective method than slaps on the ass and screams. Also look for tricks (“If you spoil, Santa Claus will not bring gifts”, etc.).
3. Show your children your love for your husband. This will be pleasant for both the spouse and will benefit the children - they will form a family model based on your couple.
4. Don't say bad things to kids! There is no need to set them up against grandfathers, dad, your girlfriend, etc. Such gossip with a child will lead to his mental disorder or moral decay of the personality. It is also worth controlling yourself in terms of how you address children. Never call them names and do not say unpleasant things (“Why did I give birth to you at all?”, “I will change you for another boy!”, etc.). If you can't help it, go to another room and calm down.
5. Find Common Parenting Solutions. When mom allows something, and dad is categorically against it, then scandals often happen between them. Yes, and the child himself suffers: he is lost, does not know whom to listen to.

The nuances of education are still very, very many. Most of them you can work out with your husband/grandparents etc. to find the best and effective ways raise good people.

How to be the best hostess

An ideal wife is not only one that can morally and physically satisfy her man. She must be a good hostess as well.

What is needed for that:

• keep the house clean;
• prepare food for the arrival of the husband or in advance (so that it does not happen that he remains hungry);
• wash clothes in a timely manner;
• do regularly general cleaning etc.

For all this, you need to plan your affairs. Moreover, you need to be prepared that sometimes you will have to sacrifice your personal time, which was allotted for rest or meetings with friends, etc. But it's definitely worth it!

However, keep in mind that there is no need to become an ardent fan of perfect purity. In many cases, you can only create an appearance - put all things in their places and vacuum. It only takes half an hour.

And you should not be angry with your spouse if he broke the idyll by scattering all the things in search of the right T-shirt. Your 15 minutes to put them together is better than a two-hour scandal and both spouses' low spirits.

little secrets

Little tricks will help you fix the result:

• talk to your husband about love more often;
• be kind;
• never raise your tone at him (to be honest, such women look disgusting);
• do not forget to make surprises (breakfast in bed, a gift for no reason, an erotic surprise, etc.);
• be cheerful;
• complain less;
• pity your spouse like a child;
• do not get unnecessary talk;
• yield;
• let's have more freedom;
• do not be overly jealous;
• keep his talking points.

1. Push yourself into the background. The wife should always take second place, but not last. After all, she will first of all try not for herself, but for her husband. How not to love this? But you should not forget about yourself completely, so as not to feel hurt and lost.
2. Don't be proud. There is no place for pride in a relationship. The ideal wife should understand this. How easy it is to avoid conflicts if you do not turn up your nose, but go forward! There is nothing humiliating about this!
3. humble yourself. Even one of the commandments says: "Let the wife be afraid of her husband." That is, one must be afraid to upset him, to harm what is dear to him. Yes, a man should be the head of the family. That is his nature. Only by standing in his place, he will be happy.
4. Don't be offended. If your husband talks about some of your shortcomings, do not take it as an insult, a desire to find fault with you. Unfortunately, many men do not know how to speak delicately. But, if something was said, then it is worth paying attention to. This is your shortcoming that needs to be worked on. Be reasonable.

It is clear that it is impossible to always be perfect: sometimes health does not allow it, sometimes - lack of time or banal fatigue. There can be many reasons.

But only the woman who wants to make her man happy will keep them to a minimum and will try and improve again and again.

And in the end, I would like to advise you to save this article or print it so that you can return to these tips from time to time. After all, now you focused only on the minimum. It takes more than one day to understand each point and implement it into your life. Good luck!

Video: How to become an ideal wife

Family happiness is one of the main desires of almost every woman. First, thoughts blow my head where to find the perfect man, and then - how to become the best, most important and irreplaceable for your beloved. And the endless social pages of ideal wives are especially depressing, against which you understand that you are far from them, and you can’t find an answer either.

This material was compiled by the wedding.ws portal specifically for the “imperfect”. Indeed, in pursuit of established stereotypes, one should not forget that a man, first of all, wants to see a self-confident woman next to him, and not something spineless.

Secrets of Ideal Wives

Perhaps the first thing that every young wife should understand is that it is impossible to become impeccable in everything from the first months of marriage. Only experience, family realities and a sincere desire to be perfect wife for a beloved husband are able to help in achieving the goal.

Often relationships after marriage do not live up to expectations. As a rule, this happens in the first year of marriage. And if you steadfastly endure this period, then the ability to understand, sympathize and show tolerance towards the chosen one will be added to the treasury of female wisdom. And this is one of the main components of the "dream wives."

Of course, you can ask directly from the chosen one what should be the ideal wife. But sometimes men themselves do not know what they want. That means you have to take matters into your own hands.

So, how to become an ideal wife:

1. love yourself. Sincerely and irrevocably. It is important to understand that husband is part of your life and not life itself. Do not give up your favorite hobbies, discover new hobbies (and even better - common interests), allow yourself an hour of unity with yourself. All this will allow you not only to feel comfortable, but also help to support with your spouse. interesting topics for conversation, far from home life and discussion of mutual acquaintances.




2. Men love with their eyes- a centuries-old truth that only the deaf / blind / lazy do not know about. This does not mean that you need to put on a ton of makeup early in the morning and spend two hours styling. At least - clean hair, well-groomed skin, shiny eyes and a smile. Protect your husband from observing cosmetic procedures: depilation, masks, body wraps, let them remain something distant and unseen for him. And your amazing beauty, of course, is from nature and nothing more.







3. Trust and attention. There, behind the doors of the house, a man must be persistent and unbending. But even the most powerful of this world have situations when they just need a loved one nearby, who will support and will not reproach for weakness. An ideal wife, like a reliable rear, always knows how to listen, understand, support, leaving all secrets only in the family. No discussion of problems weaknesses wife with friends and parents. For them, he must always remain steadfast, no matter the situation.




4. Intimate moment. A happy marriage is not possible without sex. And now we are not talking about “distributing marital debts”, but about sincere lust for each other. Beautiful lingerie, romantic dinners, new poses and techniques (which are described and shown in abundance on the net) will undoubtedly strengthen the marriage and will not let the fire of passion go out for many years to come.







5. family hearth. It is impossible, even for the thousandth time, not to mention the cleanliness and comfort in the house, and a delicious hot dinner after work. Surprise with new dishes, hang new joint photos on the walls, beat the house with new details. He may not notice new little things, but he will definitely feel that he is loved and expected in this house.




6. Be a woman- weak, in need of protection and a strong shoulder. Feel free to talk about your experiences, dreams, fears. Let your man feel that he is your support and wall, that it is his protection and support that you need every second.




7. Ability to hear and understand. How often couples break up simply because of the unwillingness to understand each other. No matter how raging emotions and not wanting to break loose, scream, slam the door with reverse side- hold on. After all, it is precisely because of women's tantrums that violence and understatement happen in families. Learn to restrain yourself and, most importantly, discuss problems calmly. Only a dialogue in which the couple hears each other will help find a way out of this situation.
8. They cut wood, not a husband. This item is without comment.




9. Personal time. While you are thinking about how to become an ideal wife for your husband, let him go with friends to a bathhouse or a beer in a bar. And this will be the first step towards the goal. Both spouses should have personal time, because even loved ones get tired. And that's okay.
10. Mother-in-law as a second mother. No negative words addressed to her in front of her husband. Whatever this woman was, she gave birth and raised your best man. Only patience. Only respect.

Hello dear reader!

Good wives, as they say, are not born, they are made. But not every girl who is about to get married knows simple rules that will help you learn how to be a good wife for your husband. Consider the subtleties and secrets that will give answers to all questions.

In fact, there are no secrets, but there are tips from experts on how to become a truly good wife for your husband, and how to be happy in marriage.

A good wife - who is she? If you want to become a full-fledged keeper of the hearth, then the search for answers to this question is the best possible for you. There is no perfect relationship without conflict.

But a woman, being the “neck”, while the spouse is the “head”, can influence not only the situation as a whole, but also the behavior of her man. Consider the 10 commandments of a married woman, the observance of which will lead to family happiness and harmony.

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It is known that the truth speaks through the mouth of a child, perhaps that is why our children are often asked provocative questions. When asked what the best wife is, a 9-year-old boy gave the following answer: “It is necessary that the wife love the same as you. For example, you love hockey or football, and she makes sure that there are always chips in the house and something to dip in. Let's discuss whether chips are enough for family happiness and how to become a better wife for a husband. After all, one little girl of six years old, when asked if she should get married, said that girls don’t need it, but boys definitely do, it’s necessary that someone always cleans up after them.

Marriage and divorce

In the life of almost every person, and women, there comes a moment of truth. He understands that there is another person nearby with whom he wants and can share both joy, and grief, and the hardships of life. Can give birth and raise common children, fall asleep and wake up together, work and rest together, go through life together. To make it work, people get married and start building a family life. However, after some time, the family may fall apart. The reason for this is the sea.

A young family breaks up due to psychological incompatibility, mutual resentment, misunderstanding and inability to manage the household, earn money, and prioritize. With the growth of family experience, the reasons for divorces can be drunkenness, infidelity, lack of common interests, problems in intimate life, religion. Jealousy, finances, difficult relationships with parents and so on also matter.

Obviously, a castle called a family must be built together, but every “builder” should try. How to become the best wife for a husband in order to avoid reproaches, nervous breakdowns, disappointments and parting?

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7 rules of psychologists for the best wives

It is likely that there are no uniform strict rules of behavior and building family life. But, psychologists, analyzing the life of happy and unhappy families, have developed some advice. Their performance will help a woman solve the problem of how to become a better wife for her husband. The most important thing is to overcome misunderstanding, which is most often caused by the psychology of men and women. And it is a woman who, due to her natural features - flexibility, wisdom, endurance, can do this. Let's discuss different life situations that are caused by a discrepancy in the psychology and physiology of husband and wife.

1. Always be sincerely in love with your husband. There are many ways to love and show your love, try to improve mutual love relationships.
2. Spend a lot of time with your husband. The wife will have to think over the interests of her husband and highlight common ones from them, this will bring her closer to her husband, he will feel not only love, but also respect for himself, his significance.
3. A man is not property. A wife does not need to demand continuous attention and communication from her husband. Everyone has the right to be alone, to have personal space and interests, their friends. This applies to both spouses, who should have their own world, friends and affections.
4. Give yourself enough attention. It is necessary to monitor your appearance, changing your image from time to time. Take care of your health, because it is a healthy wife that is the key to the well-being of the family.
5. Don't try to change your husband. It is very difficult to re-educate an adult mature person with life experience and worldview. It is much easier for a wife to reconsider her views and learn to make compromise decisions, forgive minor flaws or even ignore them. Remember that any peace, even "thin", is better than a quarrel.
6. Choose clear language. Most men do not like and do not understand omissions. An accurate and direct presentation of thoughts, requests and advice will have a much greater result than hints and unsaid phrases from the wife.
7. Solve all problems with your husband. Team relationships always improve the climate within the family, increase respect and interest in each other. Naturally, minor troubles and some major ones can be resolved by the wife on their own, but there must be tasks that must be dealt with together, even involving children.

Video tips

Being the best wife and managing the life of the family is a great art. To family life was not only mediocrely prosperous, but happy, joyful and successful, you have to work hard every day and with inspiration. The main result of the work of the best wife will, of course, be a happy man. To this man better at home than in a sports bar, but he knows where this bar is and sometimes goes there. He likes to go on vacation to the sea, but he wants to have a dacha so he can spend weekends with his family in nature. He works hard but always looks good and feels healthy. So, advice from the personal experience of the best wives:

1. His business is none of your business. Don't interfere in your husband's affairs unless he asks for it. Do not manage his affairs, avoid a lot of advice.
2. A wife's praise must have a reason. Praise your husband for success in his work, for the quality of his homework, emphasize how well he does "male" construction and repair work that is difficult for you to do. Never praise just like that and do not do his job for him.
3. Compliments are power! Compliment your husband about his appearance and taste, even if you have complaints about them. Subtly, implicitly, fix whatever you don't like. Discuss your wardrobe and hairstyle from time to time, because in the tips and comments you will hear what he wants to see his wife.
4. There should be gratitude. Thank your husband regularly for all household chores and concerns, for showing attention to you and children and, especially, to your relatives.
5. Jealousy is limited. Be jealous of your husband from time to time, emphasizing your love and your interest in him as a man. But do not be jealous constantly and desperately, otherwise he will "suffocate" and strive for freedom and independence. Jealousy is a seasoning for love, not the main dish. A very strong jealousy of a wife can kill love, happiness and family.
6. Avoid scandals. Do not reproach your husband for the fact that youth passes and old age sets in, he is not to blame for this, and he himself is also sitting in this boat.
7. Forget "ex". Do not discuss “your ex” with your husband, leave your past in the past, do not provoke outbreaks of jealousy. Do not ask your husband about him, do not stimulate memories and comparisons. No one knows in whose favor this competition will be.
8. Food must be delicious. Learn to cook tasty and varied, beautifully set the table, including for everyday breakfasts and dinners. Involve your husband in cooking, especially festive. This food will seem very tasty to him, joint successful cooking will increase his self-esteem. Maybe he will get involved, and will often become a pleasure himself for the whole family. Always praise him for his culinary achievements.
9. The wife creates family foundations. Create family traditions, a stable routine, festive rituals, Sunday meals with your husband's relatives, come up with a variety of joint leisure activities. It strengthens family relationships.
10. Loyalty to friends and relatives. Do not criticize friends, especially relatives, hobbies and addictions of the husband and his entourage. Try to make friends with your husband's acquaintances, show respect for them, with the exception of those who go off scale bad habits— with such it is necessary to try to leave.
11. Trust but check. Trust your husband, but sometimes quietly check and control him personal life. Personal freedom is important, but family and children are sacred.
12. The wife is the same mistress. Be a good and resourceful lover. Feel free to talk about your erotic dreams and fantasies, provoke your man to upgrade sexual relations. Don't set a strict schedule for intimacy. Nothing harms love like routine. Don't forget to flirt with your husband. In case of sexual problems, show tact and delicacy. Try to unobtrusively find out that this is the result of cooling in a relationship, severe overwork, age-related changes or onset of illness.
13. Holiday to be! Arrange surprises and surprises and provoke him to respond. Actively welcome signs of attention. Men, like children, love holidays and gifts. But observe the measure in everything, life cannot be an endless holiday.
14. Don't forget your image. Try to always look stylish and beautiful. A blurred figure in a faded robe and worn slippers cannot be a symbol of a good wife.
15. Most importantly, timely. Another important characteristic of a good wife is that she always has everything on time, and food for fishing, and an ironed shirt to go to visit, and a friendly word for all family members, and order in the apartment. Not only is she not late, but she does not run ahead of the locomotive either. This is great art.

Man and woman - the psychology of relationships

The man is a sprinter and the woman is a stayer

The female body more easily tolerates the load and evenly distributes forces, while men need rest to recover, as nature arranges. No need to be surprised when your husband lies on the couch or a trip to the country. He was really tired more than his wife. Physicians noted that resistance to physical activity in women, it decreases by 2% every 10 years, and in men by 10%, that is, a healthy 60-year-old woman easily endures 90% of the load of a twenty-year-old girl, while men retain only 60% of their capabilities.

Clash of temperaments

It always seems to an active wife that her husband does not want to do anything. However, many men simply cannot jump up at the first call and rush somewhere. They are gradual people. Each event, request or assignment they need to think about and get used to it, and then proceed to the task. Husbands should be given this inertial time. And wives in this situation need to be patient and “not throw their breasts at the embrasure”, doing everything on their own. In such situations, it is correct to set the task in advance.

Nobody wants to be an errand boy

A clear division of daily and weekly concerns between husband and wife greatly simplifies life. At the same time, it must be remembered that major worries - buying food for a week or vacuuming everything with sofas and carpets, and, moreover, repairs, large and small, are easier for men than rubbing a collection of souvenirs with a soft cloth or sorting out bed linen. Obviously, when any person, and a husband is no exception, is busy with business, there is no need to give advice, make comments and criticize, this causes natural irritation. But gratitude is never superfluous. Spontaneous demands and requests of the wife, especially expressed in a commanding tone, such as “Run for bread”, “Throw away the trash”, which are often accompanied by the words “How long can you wait”, etc. often outraged and offended. Failure to comply with these requests is not laziness, it’s just that no one wants to be a “TV remote control”.

Does your husband need a big salary?

The most common complaint from wives is the lack of money due to the small income of the spouse. There are many reasons for low income.

• There are men, in England they are called "lazy bone", who are always satisfied with their standard of living and the standard of living of their family. This is the most difficult case, such husbands are almost impossible to budge.
• Another option is men who need a “locomotive”, since they do not have enough energy of their own. A combination of hints from the wife that someone less capable has achieved more, inspiring statements about how talented my husband is, light reproaches will help the husband not only earn more, but also make a breakthrough in his career. Such manipulation is ideal for “women-bitches”, who know better than others that there is nothing more useful in life than a man who feels guilty.
• Often men find it difficult to understand others. The silence of the wife and her hopes “he will guess” rarely come true, most husbands believe that if she is silent, then everything is fine. Such men should be motivated to earn more, for example, by buying a new car or a prestigious one. Keeping her husband in good shape, the wife must definitely create in him the feeling that he himself decided so and will do so. In this case, everything will work out.

The man is no longer a teenager

All requests and demands of the wife, expressed in the tone of the order, cause an automatic refusal. In this case, the man is not lazy. He does not even hear the words, but only the intonation and understands that he is not only not appreciated, but maybe not loved. Persistence in requests should be reasonable. Call for patience, make requests politely, briefly and specifically, and be sure to thank when they are fulfilled.

Let's go back to the beginning of our article. Most of all in children's statements of comments about food. In a short essay by Alyosha from grade 3 about what kind of dad he would be, in addition to his future specialty - an astronaut and the number of children - 2 boys, there was a remark: “The wife will cook my favorite food”, and little Ira (5 years old) about her happy family she said this: “Mom always shares her food with dad, but she doesn’t ask him for anything.” These naive statements confirm the folk wisdom about the male heart and the way to it through the male stomach. Keep this in mind when thinking about how to become a better wife for your husband!

Psychology of relationships

And finally, not only a woman should think how the best wife for her husband, but also a man needs to make an effort to create a strong and happy family. For example, according to the version of the boy Misha, 8 years old, his wife should always be told that she is beautiful, even if in the morning it often seems that she was bitten by bees.