What to do if people are not interested in you. I'm not an interesting person and I'm not interested in people. Always acting too good

We often set ourselves up for emotional trauma when we simply ignore the signs that we are not interested in someone who is interested in us.

We often set ourselves up for emotional trauma when we simply ignore the signs that we are not interested in someone who is interested in us. We invest so much in these relationships that every month, or even year, it is harder for us to admit that nothing will work out. But you deserve more. And you can get it. Unless you settle for less. If you don't take it as love that the other person is just spending time with you.

Here are signs that the object of your love, unfortunately, is not interested in a relationship with you:

1. He does not get in touch first, and if he does get out occasionally, he only writes and does not call.

2. He goes with the flow and does not want to develop your relationship, move to a new level.

3. He keeps you a secret and doesn't introduce you to anyone.

4. He only appears when he needs something from you: help, money, attention, sex. If you remember all his calls and messages, it was just a preamble to something.

5. He makes last-minute plans with you. Even if it's 2 am.

6. He can arrange drama so that you take the hint and leave him yourself, freeing him from responsibility.

7. And when you leave him, after a while he will contact you to make sure you are still on his hook. Don't flatter yourself - he doesn't want you back. He's just pampering his ego.

8. He doesn't break up with his girlfriend/wife (and vice versa). But he wants you to wait.

9. He constantly makes excuses why he can't do something for you and your relationship.

10. You do not have a dialogue: a person either talks a lot about himself, but is not interested in anything from you, or listens only to you, but does not tell anything about himself.

11. He says he loves you but isn't ready for a relationship, that he's not right for you, that you're too good for him, etc. etc.

12. He often goes missing, preferring to live on his own terms, do what he likes, and only meet with you when he needs, is comfortable and wants to.

13. He does not make plans for the future, or vice versa - love to fantasize, just to get what he needs from you now.

14. He disrespects you, tries to control you, is too jealous. This is not love. This is a desire for power over you.

15. He's so "busy" that he doesn't have time for a relationship. This does not happen if a person is really interested in something.

There are many ways to make others want nothing to do with you. And most of them don't require much effort. After all, sometimes one glance at your behavior on social networks or a simple greeting from your side is enough for a person to start avoiding you. Let's take a look at some of the common reasons people don't like you.

Posting too many photos on social media

Interestingly, as a rule, relatives do not really like it when you post too many photos of your friends, and friends, on the contrary, are not happy to see a lot of pictures of your relatives.

Too many or too few friends on Facebook

In one study, college students were asked to look at fictitious Facebook profiles and answer how much they liked their owners. The subjects themselves had about 300 friends in this social network.

The results showed that students liked those profiles more, the owners of which also had about 300 friends. Moreover, those who had this indicator less than 100 and more than 300 equally received negative reviews. Why did the subjects not like users who have more than three hundred friends on Facebook? According to them, such people seemed to them too keen on the social network and trying in every way to increase their popularity.

Disclosure to the interlocutor of too personal details

In general, people bond more quickly if they share some candid details with each other. Moreover, scientists consider it one of the best ways to make new friends in adulthood. However, if you are at an early stage of acquaintance with a person, as they say, stun him with too intimate details (for example, that your sister has a secret extramarital affair or something like that), then with a high degree of probability you will only alienate the interlocutor .

The key to success lies in revealing some details of your personal life, while not switching to too intimate details. So, psychologists advise telling a new acquaintance, for example, about your hobbies and interesting childhood memories. Surely, such frankness will make you more attractive in the eyes of the interlocutor.

Asking questions without saying anything about yourself

Posting your photo with a close-up of your face on your social network profile

According to research, users are more like people who post photos taken with a camera from about 135 centimeters away. If you were photographed from a distance closer than 45 centimeters, then it is better not to post such a picture on the social network, as it will only cause a negative reaction.

Hiding emotions

Numerous studies have shown that the best way to get close to people is to show your true feelings about an object or event. Therefore, if you avoid showing your emotions, then others may think that you are of little interest and that you are an unemotional, cold person. Therefore, they are unlikely to want to do business with you.

Always acting too good

Many people think that others like people who never refuse anyone anything and are always ready to help. However, in reality this is not the case at all. According to research, this behavior can make people think that you have some ulterior motives and goals that you plan to achieve by behaving in this way. After all, looking at things objectively, it becomes clear that you hardly want to be the one who is always ready to run for pizza or drinks during a meeting, fill the printer with paper, etc. It is perfectly normal to sometimes refuse others their requests.

Excessive self-criticism

If you do not want to alienate new acquaintances or potential employers, then do not exaggerate your shortcomings. Of course, you should not praise yourself too much either. So, according to the research, people have a negative reaction to the situation when their interlocutor, answering the question, exaggerates his weaknesses.

Excessive nervousness

In no case should you allow others to see, and even more so to feel that you are sweating. According to research, the smell of sweat can subconsciously influence other people's opinion of you. Therefore, it is necessary to try to control yourself and be sure to use deodorant, which can help a little in such a situation.

Have pity on me

Before rushing to help a person, you need to figure out if he really needs it. It happens that our loved ones, sadly to admit, simply play the role of a victim. They like to painfully close themselves in the room, as if in a cell, and philosophize for hours on the topic of the meaninglessness of being. But if you try to offer such a person real ways to solve his problems, he will find a bunch of excuses and reasons not to do anything. Therefore, if you know that a loved one is just like that, in no case rush to help him. On the contrary, do not react at all to his behavior, you can even make fun of them. These people just need to be pitied. They do not want to change something, shake things up, look for ways out of the situation. On the contrary, they like to wallow in their grief, pretending that they do not need pity, but in fact, enjoy how everyone around them runs around, trying to help, cheering, and so on. Therefore, if you decide to help such a person, it is better to talk with his relatives and warn that in no case should you respond to his suffering and apathy. If everyone stops messing with him, then over time he will have to pull himself together, because he will understand that no one cares about his suffering. And he just doesn't care.

"I don't know what to do with this trouble..."

If your loved one is faced with some kind of problem and cannot solve it, then try to help him with advice and deed. It happens that we lose interest in life, because a lot of problems pile up, which are difficult to understand. If you suspect or know this is the case, talk to your loved one. Initially, he may refuse, but if he is one of those people who make contact, then sooner or later, he will tell everything. From a frank conversation, he will already feel better, but this is only the beginning. You will need to make every effort to convince a person that life does not end and everything will be fine. You can recall any similar stories with a happy ending, convince, motivate, offer your own ways to solve problems. You have to make a person believe that he is not the unluckiest person on the planet and everything can be resolved, you just need to shake things up and believe in yourself. Remember that nothing is solved in one day and there will definitely be more failures along the way. Most importantly, never leave a loved one alone. You must control him to some extent, help, encourage and not let him become discouraged. Then, in time, he will overcome all his difficulties and be able to enjoy life again.

Together it's fun to walk across the expanses

If your loved one is sad and moping, if he doesn’t need anything, then your task is to interest him in changing his usual environment. It's easy to mope within four walls, but try to mope on a hike in the mountains. Therefore, come up with a cultural program for him that will be interesting and varied. Just do not force a person to do what he does not like. You need to choose exactly those activities that are associated with something good, make you remember fun times, and so on. If he loves the sea, you don't need to drag him to the mountains, and if he is a homebody, you shouldn't send a person to a nightclub. Just make sure that he goes out to people more often. Let him change his environment, make new acquaintances. Therefore, try to distract him from the routine and captivate with something new and unknown. It is especially good if your loved one is easy to climb. Then you can constantly pull it out of the house somewhere. But even if this is not the case, still change at least something in his life: start a renovation, take him to the country, or at least bring a bunch of new comedy series and watch with him - he will laugh and be distracted. And the more fun there is in life, the less this life seems uninteresting.

"We'll cure you..."

In our country, going to a psychologist is still not particularly fashionable. It seems to many that it is stupid Americans who can afford to throw away money for such things, but we, normal people, have enough bottles of vodka and a friend who will listen. Unfortunately, in some situations, a friend, if he, of course, does not have a diploma in psychology, does not always help. Therefore, if you see that the situation is getting worse and all your attempts lead to nothing, then you should still offer your loved one a trip to a psychologist. Of course, you can run into resentment and inadequate reaction, even accusations that you consider him psycho. Here you should pull yourself together and explain that a psychologist and a psychiatrist are radically opposite things. Even the specialty of a psychologist is obtained in a humanitarian university, and a psychiatrist - only in a medical one. You can also say that you yourself will go to the reception, although you certainly do not consider yourself a psycho. But when a person flatly refuses, gets angry, literally rages, you should not insist. Instead of helping, you finally assure him that he is a nonentity and his life is insignificant, so what is the interest in it. Although, on the other hand, the situation may worsen, but here you will not help in any way without his consent.

I want nothing!

Before that, we talked about situations when a person is not interested in life, but wants to get at least some help. But is it worth it to offer and impose it in the case when we are openly told that they do not want anything? In this case, you should never put pressure on a person. If he openly stated that life is uninteresting and he himself does not want to look for meaning in it, since he is already satisfied with everything, there is no need to convince him, shout, cry. Your behavior will not change anything in a positive direction, on the contrary, it will lead to the fact that the person simply closes in on himself. Therefore, instead of lecturing, persuading, dragging somewhere, just be there. Do not let him completely lose touch with the colorful and interesting life. Tell the news, stories about the ups and downs of your friends and acquaintances, sometimes give him information that may concern his interests. But don't push. If a person consciously chose such a life and refused help, then you will not be able to change something radically. He will either come to the conclusion that it is impossible to live like this and change everything, or he will exist as he exists.

I regularly get questions that guys usually address the universe, but since the feedback from him is often junk, Vintovkin will do: “Why does no one love me?” and any variations on the theme (“Why does everyone have girls, but I don’t?”, “Why don’t they pay attention to me?”, “Why can’t I start a relationship with anyone?” Etc.) And each since it’s hard for me, damn hard to find the right words to, on the one hand, cheer up the questioner (because sometimes you really just need to wait). And on the other hand, to force him to look at the objective reasons/habits/characteristics that prevent him from establishing an intergender dialogue.

In order to save myself, and at the same time them, from torment, I decided to collect the most common answers in one post:

1. Because you are too soft

I do not think that being sensitive, shy, tactful, prudent and obedient is a bad thing. But that's what they usually think young maidens. And the younger the girl, the more, as a rule, she attaches more importance to the textbook attributes of masculinity (determination bordering on impudence, commanding intonations in her voice, a steely look, a strong-willed chin, and further down the list). To look - and immediately understand: before you is not just a male creature, but a male, and clearly dominant. And the qualities that are at the opposite pole are often interpreted *, on the contrary, as a sign of weakness and self-doubt. And such quivering, not quite (or not at all) male gentlemen usually turn out to be suitable as girlfriends with whom you can go to the movies and fray, but somehow you don’t want to look at them without panties, thanks.

*Of course, such an approach from the point of view of humanism (and adult woman like me) - cruel, superficial, even stupid. But young girls are often just like that - superficial, stereotypically thinking and, frankly, heartless creatures.

2. Because you are introverted

There is no greater torture than a date with a guy who cannot connect two words, looks at you askance and frowningly, as if you made a stuffed animal out of his favorite dachshund, and answers any question as if his every “Ummm ...” will certainly be used against him. First, because a girl usually tunes in to what it is her will entertain and enthrall. And when in the end she herself is forced to pull the whole conversation and act as an animator, this, frankly, is a bummer. Secondly, a society of silent people is always a big test for women's self-esteem. With her head, maybe she understands that the problem is not in her, but in you (and the fact that, hanging for days / weeks / months in some social network, you simply lost the habit - or maybe you never knew how - to communicate in real life). But somewhere deep inside, a worm of doubts is still tossing and turning: what if, in fact, you are charming and eloquent, and you behave this way with her, because you simply don’t like her enough? And women, whatever one may say, prefer the company of someone who is crazy about them. And he doesn't hide it.

3. Because you are rude

Including and especially in relation to girls. You are rude to them, daring, teasing and just trying to humiliate them at every opportunity. Testicles should be torn off by someone who convinced you that women love to be mixed with dirt. Take my word for it: they don't. Maybe at first some of my gender sisters find this charmingly eccentric and even exciting. But then the realization will certainly come that you behave this way not from an excess of strength, but, on the contrary, from impotence.

4. Because you criticize

The ability to find a spoonful of something foul-smelling and inedible in everything (“Pretty? So, probably a fool or a slut”, “Salary increased by 10%? Well, prices increased by 20”, etc.), in principle, useful for life skill. It is well known that the less you wait, the less you will be disappointed in the end. But this skill is good only for its owner. Everyone else (including girls) in the company of such negative people sooner or later becomes uncomfortable. As they say, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. And to give a chance to a guy who clearly has problems "with vision", no one wants to.

5. Because you complain

Nobody likes whiners. And even the mothers of whiners who are supposed to console, stroke their curls and whisper “everything will be fine”, doing all this, think to themselves, damn it, well, how much can you do, but get together already, in the end! If you are so unbearable and absolutely need to pour out your suffering somewhere, get yourself a little book and write down all your poor things and troubles in it. And the girls absolutely don’t want to hear about the fact that the weather is rubbish, the neighbors got it with their repairs, the ancestors went out of their minds, the last season of the Game of Thrones is boring and so on, in the same minor key. And if you are counting on the fact that the girl will rush to convince you and prove that life is really beautiful and amazing, then in vain. Rather, she will rush into the arms of someone who is not so painful about the imperfections of this world.

6. Because you are passive

In the most primitive, absolutely heterosexual sense. Men who live by the principle “They will come and offer everything themselves” usually naively believe that this rule applies to women as well. And if his threshold is still not upholstered by beautiful, ready for all virgins, then this is a temporary phenomenon. You just need to get comfortable on the couch, make sure the doorbell works, and wait. Alas, it is not. Women, like a hundred years ago, are waiting, hoping and believing that they will be conquered. And even in our harsh metrosexual age, for one like you, there are a dozen hereditary "getters".

7. Because you are boring

Let's take an objective look at the situation. What, besides study / work, series and social networks, is your life filled with? Are you really good at anything? Are you able to talk about something with burning eyes for more than 15 minutes? Yes, even about the etymology of Russian obscenities or the difference between Romanian and Belgian porn. How often, communicating with you, people say: “Oh, cool!”, “Nothing!”, “I would never have thought (a)!” etc. Women have always been drawn - and will continue to do so - to those who know, know how, have seen more than themselves. And the fact that they do not see such a person in you is only to blame for you and your meager range of interests.

8. Because you don't love yourself

If you consider yourself worthless, then why on earth would anyone perceive you otherwise? If we have to choose between extremes, then girls are more sympathetic to slightly narcissistic natures (the key word is “slightly”). With them, although we are on the sidelines, we are always at the epicenter of attention and events. The main thing is that the gentleman's self-conceit should be based not only on the fact that in childhood his mother told him: “Baby, you are the best!”, But on something a little more substantial and tangible.

9. Because you are sure that everyone owes you

The state - smooth roads and polite doctors, friends - to meet at the airport at three in the morning, girls - to hand over their phone numbers, as soon as you linger on them for more than three seconds. Such types, firstly, usually turn out to be terry bores and egoists who only go on about their needs, for the most part unsatisfied. And secondly, often they themselves do not know how and do not have what to give to those who are nearby. And relationships are, whatever one may say, a couples sport.

Hello. in recent times I often think about suicide. I don't know what to do anymore, I have big problems in dealing with people. the reason is expressed in the fact that I am simply not interesting to people. each of normal people has some kind of achievements, hobbies and much more. I'm just a dummy, there is nothing surprising in the fact that my peers do not communicate with me. for all 17 years I have not had a girlfriend, nor, it seems to me, real friends. As for the fact that I don’t have a girlfriend, it seems to me that there is nothing surprising here either: who needs a guy who can’t protect himself? And the solution seems to be simple: go boxing, find yourself a hobby. But I don't have time for all that. the university is far from my house and it takes about 5 hours for one way round trip. I have only fought twice in my entire life and I was beaten both times. I rarely communicated with people in childhood, I can not communicate with them in adulthood. someone told me: "be more confident." but what's the point of this confidence if I'm a nonentity? at the university, I seem to occupy the same social niche as at school: the niche of an outcast. I believe that I will die a natural death, then I will die alone, useless to anyone, an old man, and a virgin at that. why wait then? and one day I decided that there was nothing more to wait for. the veins were opened, but as you can see, I did not have enough strength, even to kill myself. my parents use me to do housework and cultivate a small piece of land. they seem to have put me to good use: a slave who will do anything and ask for nothing in return. to parents, I turn to "you", it just so happened. Once, when at school, the class teacher heard me address my mother, she decided that it was just a stranger. my parents are not at all interested in how things are with my personal life, the question of this has never been raised. about the fact that I have no one with whom I could talk, they think they know. I simply don’t have time to walk: I need to cook food, wash the dishes, and tidy up the house. for failure to fulfill these duties, I will have a serious conversation with my father, as well as acquaintance with his fists. I do not believe in God (although I do not rule out that he exists). I have no one to ask for help. having endured so much pain, you can endure a little more, but after that there will be no parents, no loneliness, no space, no time .... nothing.
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nobody, age: 17/14.09.2009

Responses:

Stop beating yourself up. Each person is infinity, my life is as important as yours, as well as the life of any other person. If you feel yourself unnecessary here and now - try to find a use for yourself in another place, learn to be needed. Confidence gives a person the understanding that he is in his place. Search.

Maxim, age: 28 / 14.09.2009

Hello Human!
What makes you so upset?

Do you not believe in God? Have you tried talking to him? Have you read much about him?

Lived to 17 - it's already good.

There were only two fights in your life and everyone is alive - wonderful!

There is a family, and parents do not climb into the soul! Oh how many people dream about it!

There is study and the prospect of entering a university - great!

No hobby. Me too - no. I have a job - a hobby!

The cool girl notices such insignificant shades of communication - cool cool! My son could not remember what family the student was from!

No friends or do you think you don't? Specify.

Girls are not? Also normal. Normal people do not shout about their personal lives at every corner. And those who scream - are they normal? I'm reading letters here and I don't understand why the world has turned upside down? Previously, the ancestors in the villages of guys married early, why? To only know his WIFE. Are you ready to get married now? Thank God it's not yet intimate relationships. For your information, there is a canonical bar to ordination to the priesthood of young men who had premarital affairs. For your information, Saint Seraphim of Sarov was a virgin, and this did not prevent him, but helped him to be loved by many thousands of people. This is one of the most joyful and beloved Russian saints.

As for the lonely old man who is dying alone somewhere - help him not to be lonely :).
Or are you talking about yourself? But you have 17 years in your signature. Where is the old man? I do not see!
Tired guy? Nothing this year will be difficult - graduation. Be patient. It's easier there. Checked!

Elena, age: 52 / 09/14/2009

Listen boy! I don't want to call you "nobody", you have a normal human name! It's strange why you feel unwanted! You do so much for your family and still study well! I'm afraid you've been influenced by the current TV programs and movies that exalt the cult of power. Ask for a place in a hostel at the university, start living on your own, then your parents will understand how "unnecessary" you are. It's okay if you don't have a girlfriend! You are still quite young! A lot of people your age brag about their success with sex. front: it's all fiction, believe me! In my time, everything was the same. I believe that you will find a normal, calm girl (and not glamorous rubbish), so you will just create a normal family. You have all the makings. Try to find one that has common interests and she understands you, do not buy into appearance and everything will be fine!

Marina, age: 45 / 09/14/2009

Hey! I will write my personal opinion: I went to this site with some bad thoughts, this site is the first to pop up in the search engine. I read it. Thoughts fled.
Boy, do not deprive yourself of the pleasures of life because of problems that can be overcome. our common problem is the lack of willpower, so we need to develop it. work on yourself - do what you don’t want to, but you need to. Set a goal, take the time to achieve it. Don't back down.
List on paper all your problems, and then write their solutions and proceed through I don’t want to.
so you gain self-confidence, and girls appreciate it.

dimon, age: 23/14.09.2009

Hey! You write that for 17 years you didn’t have real friends, so you still had friends?
Believe me, this is not the age when you need to sum up your achievements. You are too young. Many people at school were not happy either, and they live nothing and enjoy life. The problem of all outcasts, including former, including that they have forgotten how to trust people. There is no friendship without trust.
Parents, of course, need to be helped, but for "you" it's somehow strange. Have you called them that since childhood? Or just after a fight?
In some families, the topic of personal life is somehow not discussed.
It seems to me that you just need to talk to someone about your problem, with a person you trust: do you have any relatives that you can trust?

"and one day I decided that there was nothing more to wait for. The veins were opened, but as you can see, I did not have enough strength, even to kill myself."
The instinct of self-preservation is still a pleasant thing.

Now let's try to simulate your future without suicide. How many years will pass, you will have long forgotten this site and everything that we all wrote to you.
You will find your love, you will have a best friend. You will come to the conclusion how young, stupid you were, and that all this simply could not have happened, but there would have been only a corpse / mortuary / coffin / flowers / tears of parents / monument / decomposition. And no opportunities to fix it all. Since the option
correction of fate is available only in live form. But you want to take this away from yourself too !!!
Do you need it???

Oksana, age: 22 / 15.09.2009

Young man ... I have a feeling that you revel in your "suffering", everything is bad, disgusting, I'm a nonentity and so on! Believe me, the absence of a girlfriend, problems with parents and dissatisfaction with yourself are not uncommon at your age. This is by no means the worst and certainly not a reason for suicide. Relax, everything will be fine)))

Lilu, age: 22 / 15.09.2009

In general, I did not think that I would write here, but
with all due respect to Elena and Marina, I want to say that for some reason you did not raise the topic of parents. It seems to me that the point is not entirely in exposure to modern corrupting culture, how to say. I also find it corrupting, but
boy, you understand that all your problems are from your parents, that they exploit you so much that you don’t have time for anything, this is wrong
I understand you perfectly, because I myself didn’t have much relationship until grade 1, my mother loved me, but she worked a lot, and dad drank, he was not up to me. And from grade 1 I live with my stepfather, that’s when it started, I was not allowed out of the house anywhere except school without them. And I want to tell you that your insecurity, lack of normal relationships with friends, your complexes are not because of you, but because your parents are abnormal, since your father also beats you. Especially. By the way, there is an article in the Criminal Code, bringing to suicide, but you don’t tell your parents this, otherwise they will beat you again. If you live quite far from Moscow, then study hard, try hard to go to university and live in a hostel. Away from them. Understand that this is all serious because of them, then in general they can be personal and sexual life disorders, but you must understand one thing, that you are beautiful. Because you are doing something and you are meek, although it ruins your life. Get busy and do it, live in a hostel. If you enter Moscow, I can be your friend :) Then you definitely need to go to a psychologist to help you somehow, because the most serious injuries from childhood, be strong. And remember, the problem is not you. And you never were. And there are a lot of degenerates in schools now, I didn’t have friends in my class either, but they appeared at the university.

Anya, age: 09/19/2009

Hey!
You know, at your age it also seemed to me that my parents exploited me, squeezed me, did not like me, and they were not interested in me at all. There were such thoughts! and about personal life in our family it is not customary to talk, and kisses and hugs are not about us, and I have never heard compliments from my parents in my life. I always considered this proof that they don’t like me :))) All this is nonsense!!! They love, very much, so much so that few people dream at all !!! Then you begin to see and understand this, sometimes, unfortunately, too late ... And they love you! And doing housework and having responsibilities is NORMAL for a normal family, and you should be ashamed of this topic, not a little one. And the fact that they make you help is great, as you grow up, you will appreciate what you have learned. There is nothing more disgusting than a peasant who cannot do anything around the house. Therefore, do not shy away from any work. And be glad that you have parents and you CAN help them. It's great to help family! Do it with joy. And about personal time - negotiate. Let's say you devote Saturday to your parents, do household chores, and on Sunday you go hiking. Is it logical? I don't think parents will mind. And stupid words, such as "slave", you throw out of your head. You interfere with concepts and cherish children's grievances. It's time to grow up!

Steffi, age: 35 / 09/18/2009

Hello again!
I want to say one more thing: maybe you should leave? In another city, say, to go to university. Or transfer. You don't have to study in your city. By doing this, you will gain independence from your parents (if the issue is already so painful) and get rid of the dope in your head, because it will be more difficult in a new place - you will have to spin, get settled and adapt. And then just the head will be busy with others. And at the same time, you will look at yourself from the outside, what are you like in an independent life. It’s hard to understand this at home, we are all children with our parents.
Think about it, maybe this is a way out for you? In any case, you have nothing to lose, except cockroaches in your head.

Steffi, age: 35 / 09/21/2009

Yes, alone and unsociable,
But the world needs you.
And without this dull grain of sand
The world would fall apart and not arise.
And you, like anyone, are a hiding place,
Keeper of the highest secret. (L.I. Boleslavsky)

Pelagia, age: 17/03.10.2009

Don't despair. Enter the Faculty of Humanities, there are a lot of girls.))
Why don't I have boyfriends like this?! Around some moral freaks with delusions of grandeur. You're only 17 - you'll have time to meet a girl.
I envy your future wife.