What to attract. How to make the right person appear in life? How to attract the circumstances you need so that everything turns out favorably

In the Universe, in order to maintain the spiritual and material energy balance, energy exchange is constantly and continuously taking place. This circulation of energy takes place within the framework of the law of conservation of energy.
Communication is essentially an energy exchange. The energy produced by man is given outward. But, in accordance with the laws of conservation of energy, a person must receive energy from outside. Hence the need to communicate.

People communicate for personal gain. During the interaction between people, an energy exchange occurs - one gives, the other receives and vice versa. If people like each other, then an intense energy exchange takes place between them. At the same time, both experience the pleasure of communication.

Even if two people experiencing mutual attraction do not talk, feigning indifference, their energy fields are still drawn to each other. As the saying goes, "I'm drawn to him."

During the communication of two people, channels are formed between their auras, through which energy flows flow in both directions. The streams can be of any color and take on any shape (they can be seen with extrasensory perception abilities).

Energy channels connect the auras of partners through the corresponding chakras, depending on the type of communication:
Muladhara(base chakra) - relatives.
Swadhisthana(sex chakra) - lovers, married couple, friends in a fun pastime, relatives.
Manipura(navel chakra) - relatives, employees, subordinates, bosses, friends in sports and those with whom you enter into competition.
Anahata(heart chakra) - objects of emotional interaction, these are the people we love. For the harmonious development of relations between a man and a woman, it is necessary to have a channel through the sexual chakra (svadhisthana).
Vishuddha(throat chakra) - like-minded people, colleagues, etc.
Ajna(frontal chakra) - imitation and adoration of an idol, sect leader, etc. Hypnotic channels, suggestion of thoughts. Telepathic communication with another person.
Sahasrara(crown chakra) - connection only with egregors (collectives, religious communities, sects, football fan clubs, political ideology, etc.)

The more enthusiastic partners are with each other, the stronger and more active channels are formed.

In the course of developing close trusting relationships, all chakras are gradually connected by channels. It is in this way that strong relationships arise that are not subject to either distance or time. For example, a mother always feels her child, no matter where he is, and no matter how many years have passed since their last meeting. It also happens that when meeting an old acquaintance after many years, a person feels as if they parted only yesterday.

Channels can persist for a very long time - years, decades, and pass from incarnation to incarnation. That is, channels connect not only bodies, but also souls.

Healthy relationships form bright, clear, pulsating channels. In such relationships there is trust, intimacy, sincerity and there is enough room for personal freedom. There is an equal exchange of energy, without distortions.

If the relationship is unhealthy, that is, one partner depends on the other, then the channels are heavy, stagnant, dull. Such relationships deprive of freedom, often come down to mutual irritation and anger.

If one of the partners wants to completely control the other, the channels can wrap around the aura from all sides.

When relationships gradually die, the channels become thinner and weaker. Over time, the energy stops running through these channels, communication stops, people become strangers.

If people part, but the channels are still preserved, then they continue to reach out to each other. It also happens when one partner cuts off communication channels and closes from further interaction, while the other partner is still attached to him and is trying in every possible way to break through energy protection in order to restore relations.

In the process of forcible rupture of channels, parting is very painful. It takes many months or years to recover from this. Much here depends on how ready a person is to accept the free will of another and free himself from dependence developed over a long time.

Most of the channels built in everyday communication eventually disappear without a trace. In the case of close relationships, the channels remain for a very long time, even after parting, some channels remain. Particularly strong channels arise during sexual and family ties.

In this fragment, you will see a demonstrative experiment that proves the existence of energy channels between people who have been in a relationship for a long time:

Each time during sexual contact with a new partner, new channels are formed through the sexual chakra, connecting people for many years, and even the whole subsequent life. At the same time, it does not matter at all whether the sexual partners managed to find out each other's names - the channel in the case of sexual contact is formed and lasts a very long time. And if there is a channel, then there is also the circulation of energy through it. And what quality the energy comes in is already difficult to say, it depends on the characteristics of the field of another person. To sleep or not to sleep, and if to sleep, then with whom, of course, you decide. It's good when it happens consciously.

It is believed that the strongest channels are parental. But even here there are options.

In people who live nearby for a long time, energy fields (auras) adjust to each other and work in unison. Intimate relationships require field synchronization. Often we notice that people who live together for a long time become similar to each other even outwardly.

If the characteristics of the auras of two individuals differ greatly, then it will be difficult for them to communicate. When energy flows alien to it invade the field, a reaction of repulsion, fear, disgust appears. "He makes me sick."

When a person does not want to communicate with someone, he closes his energy field, and all energy flows emanating from another person are reflected. In this case, the other person gets the impression that he is not heard, as if he is talking to the wall.

During illness, the patient's energy field is weakened, and he unconsciously replenishes the missing energy at the expense of the one who is nearby. This happens automatically. Healthy people feed the sick. This is part of family life: first I will help you, then you will help me. If the illness is prolonged and severe, all members of the family may feel its devastating influence. They will eventually feel tired and unwilling to care for the sick. At such moments, it is very important to be able to replenish your own energy reserves. You can not give all the time only to care for the patient, you need to be distracted. Hobbies, sports, creativity, communication with friends, entertainment can come to the rescue.

Negative emotions (anger, envy, jealousy, etc.) directed towards another person pierce his aura with a dark energy flow. In this case, there is a leakage of energy in favor of the aggressor. A person whose aura is polluted by imperfect thinking, dislike or despondency is not able to receive energy from external space, and he fills his energy hunger at the expense of other people. This is the so-called energy vampirism.

The vampire may be active. In this case, he takes energy from another person by actively ejecting negativity in his direction. These are, as a rule, brawlers, conflict people, constantly grumbling and embittered. If in response to the vicious attack of such a person you responded emotionally - upset, angry - then your energy flowed to him. It turns out that the main defense is calm and ignoring.

Extremely negative interactions can cause such a strong destruction of the field that a person will have to recover for a long time. Some aura healing processes happen automatically. In this case, they say: "time heals." But some wounds leave permanent scars that can carry over into future lives. People in this case tend to avoid pain and protect their wounds with energetic and psychological blocks.

It remains to be said that channels can connect not only two people, channels can connect a person with an animal, plant or any inanimate object. For example, many are familiar with the feeling of longing for a place or home where important events took place. A person can become attached to his car, a child to his toy.

In the event of a dependence on an object to which strong but unhealthy energy channels are stretched, such channels are usually called. Bindings block the free will of a person and disrupt the energy balance. Bindings will be discussed in the next article.

1. Subdue your ego

Each of us is by nature the center of our lives and should always remain so. To get the gift of trust in another person, you must give him the same natural, normal self-perception. The lives of others, no matter who they are responsible for, revolve around themselves. Not you. Take it for granted, and then they will trust you.

The most attractive side of trust is modesty, the humility of one's pride.

Robin Dreek

2. Don't judge

Respect the opinions, perceptions and views of others, even if they are alien to you and directly opposite to yours. Nobody trusts those who look down on them and don't understand them. Nonjudgmental acceptance is the most effective incentive to establish trust.

3. Recognize and appreciate the importance of others

Integrity is inherent in every person - regardless of his position in life - and in order to be worthy of his trust, you must recognize this, demonstrate your decency and improve. We are all born with a sacred right to our ideas, and no one is born with the desire to destroy or alienate others. Decency is the basis of human society.

4. Respect common sense

Resist the temptation to get personal, evoke emotions, argue, exaggerate, manipulate, or coerce. Stick to the facts, be honest and sincere.

Only those who rely on common sense, honesty and decency are able to create the basis of a rational community of interests on which trust is based.

Robin Dreek

Trust based on excessive emotionality will only last until the next surge of emotions. Leadership based on fear only inspires fear. Convince people that you are trustworthy and they will believe you.

5. Be generous

Do not expect to be given trust if you do not trust yourself. People don't tend to believe those who prefer one-sided relationships. Selfishness repels. Generosity attracts.

The most generous gift from you is your trust. The most enduring gift you can offer is trust for years to come.

4 steps to building trust

1. Align your goals

First, it is a reward that justifies all the sacrifices made on its altar. Choose it carefully and follow it strictly. Don't get distracted by smaller goals, no matter how important they may seem.

Second, get to know the goals of others and find good reasons to acknowledge their importance.

Third, look for ways to combine your own and others' goals. Try to make their goals part of the process of achieving your goal, and your goal part of their goal. If you succeed in this, you will have the power that is possible only by joining forces.

2. Consider context

To successfully combine your own and others' efforts, you need to know the aspirations, beliefs, character traits, models and demographics of others. These are the main components that determine the context. Find out everything and more. So you will understand what people really are, and not what they try to imagine themselves to be or what you imagine them to be in your terrible fantasies.

Understanding people includes knowing how you look in their eyes.

Robin Dreek

If they have the wrong idea about you, try to show the real you. People are who they are, so look for an appropriate approach to them, do not try to change them. In general, do not argue with the context.

3. Develop a Contact Plan

When you meet with potential allies, plan the meeting carefully, especially the first. Choose the perfect environment. Think in advance what the atmosphere should be, the nature of the event, the ideal time and place, your first words, your goal and the contribution that you will offer.

Through well-designed and organized meetings, you will be able to build trust like a river rushing to the sea and taking with it everything that falls into it.

4. Build Relationships

To successfully align your goals - and keep what you've achieved - speak the same language, literally and figuratively. Words - and the character traits they reveal - are the main tools for building trusting relationships.

Use the language of common sense, respect and consideration for people to create strong lasting bonds that help you achieve your goals. The language of trust is verbal and is not based on narcissism, judgment, irrationality, or self-interest. It - and the whole way of life - includes understanding, recognizing the significance and dignity of another, and helping. It's them that matter, not you..

Even if relationships change and goals are forgotten, the words and feelings they evoked can be remembered forever.

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There are people who radiate such an inexplicable magnetism that absolutely the entire environment is drawn to them, wants to be like them, earn their friendship, or at least approval. And the most curious thing is that it does not depend on the appearance of these attractive people at all.

website found 9 rules to follow in order to become such a person. And yes, charismatic people are not born, they are made.

Individual image

You need a unique look. Not even so - you need a unique detail in the image. After all, your own original external image is something by which even people you do not know can remember you. And we are not talking about beauty at all. Paradoxically, uniqueness can even be expressed in ugliness or vulnerability. Any of your pronounced "chips", whether it's gait, gestures, facial expressions, intonation, communication style or a detail in your wardrobe, will make you memorable.

Here are some examples of details of famous people or what they are associated with:

• Charlie Chaplin - mustache, suit, cane
• Tilda Swinton - asexuality, no makeup
• Winston Churchill - fullness, cigar
• Joseph Stalin - mustache, pipe, accent
• Adolf Hitler - special shaped mustache, intonation
• Dita Von Teese - 40s look, red lipstick
• Marilyn Monroe - hair color, mole
• Salvador Dali - mustache, facial expressions

You must have a big dream

In order for people to aspire to you and appreciate you as a truly special person, you must certainly have some kind of reason for being. Ambition, goals, the desire to change something in this world. Fight for something. After all, a person without a dream is like a book without an idea. Why read this?

Be confident

To be charismatic, you must first of all be confident in yourself. Feel free to make decisions, be able to rely only on yourself, not wait for outside help, and communicate your ideas to other people in an accessible way.

Confidence is felt not only in behavior, but also in speech. Avoid expressions such as "I think, I hope, I suppose, I expect, maybe, probably."

Forget Complaining

Think: could you admire and try to be like a person who complains all the time? Of course not. Charismatic people are positive. Avoid criticism, complaints, and negative topics. Even if not everything is going smoothly in life, start the conversation with what brings you pleasure and will bring it to your listeners.

Use sign language

By your behavior, you should show your confidence: do not slouch, do not fiddle with any objects or parts of your own body in a fit of neurosis, try to smile more often, look straight into your eyes and avoid closed poses.

And in general, appearing in society, feel like a star on the red carpet.

Become a great storyteller

Many people believe that the ability to tell interesting stories is a talent.

But it is not always the case. In most cases, this is a skill that can be learned. Just speak confidently, use humor, especially self-irony - the ability to laugh at yourself is aerobatics. Use body language, be emotional and positive. Don't be discouraged if not every one of your stories or jokes gets through.

Tell your personal stories. Many people, having heard something really interesting, will share it with others.

Don't take your eyes off

When talking to a person, always make eye contact. Sometimes one piercing glance can say more than a thousand words: the right eye contact shows that you are listening to the interlocutor, understand and accept him as a person.

Important: when you are talking to someone at an event, do not get distracted by extraneous things, do not look at your phone and do not scan the crowd in the hope of seeing a more “necessary” interlocutor.

Learn to listen to others

No need to consider yourself the most important person in the world and strive to turn the eyes of the entire environment only on yourself, no. A person can be attracted by his genuine interest in the lives of others, because listening to other people is an art. If you listen carefully to another person, are interested in him, he begins to feel needed and even special to some extent.

Of course, it is impossible to remember everything that the interlocutor said, but remembering his name is a big deal. There is one curious trick: when a person introduces himself to you, repeat his name: "Oleg, it's very nice." And so that, in turn, they immediately remember you, use the same method of repetition, only your own name: “Hello, my name is Daria. Uvarova Daria.

Use the mirror effect

The mirror effect, or simply mirroring, is an easy way to win over a person by repeating their facial expressions, intonation, or gestures. This always works, since the technique is based on the nature of human narcissism: the interlocutor unconsciously begins to feel that you are on the same wavelength with him.

The same effect can be applied not only in a conversation in order to win over, but also to adopt the "chips" of people who seem charismatic to you. For example, famous people. See how they present themselves, it can help you feel more confident. You can find a detailed analysis of such examples on the video channel

In our world there are people filled with vivacity, energy, they do not have a bad mood. They are almost always friendly, cheerful, sweet and charming, and despite the fact that they have not achieved success in their careers, they do not have large incomes, influential acquaintances, beautiful and attractive appearance. Even those people who in life are always skeptical of others notice that they also fall under their magnetic influence. This article will discuss how to become charming and learn how to attract people.

The life of such cheerful and positive people is always full of various events and funny surprises. There are always a lot of different people around them, because charming personalities can give you any advice, calm and cheer you up, listen and cheer you up. With such people it is never boring and dreary. Those who often arrive alone and cannot find friends constantly ask themselves the question: “How do they always manage to be so charming and easily attract people to them?”.

Everything is very simple. Such individuals always do not pay attention to the surrounding opinion, do not expect others to approve their actions. Their main character trait is purposefulness, if they have something in mind, they will bring it to the end, no matter what it costs them. These people do not have the gift of attraction, they just stick to their demeanor, which any person can achieve.

7 tips and tricks on how to learn to be charming and easily attract people to you

1. Treat others with respect. Always treat all people with courtesy, kindness, and respect. It does not matter who it will be - the director of a large company or a simple janitor. Remember that if you treat at least one person badly, this will immediately cause a negative impression of the people around you. Self-confident individuals know that they are no different from everyone else, so they show respect for everyone without exception.
2. Never use secular manner of communication. Arrogant and proud people often start empty and unnecessary conversation in a secular form. So you will 100% alienate others from yourself. Charming people would never do that. They will question their interlocutor with sincerity and interest, which allows them to give advice and the necessary answers to questions, while not getting into the soul and not annoying.
3. Distinguish between personal opinion and facts. Naturally, in the circle of communication of versatile people, conversations on various topics and even very controversial ones can begin. To easily attract people to you, you need to be extremely careful in your statements. Of course, it’s not worth it to bypass such conversations in the tenth way, as well as take one side all the time. It is best to express your opinion, but at the same time clearly emphasize that this is your personal opinion and that it is different for everyone and should be respected.
4. When showing interest in people, do not talk only about yourself. One of the most simple ways how to become charming and easily attract people to you, is a sincere interest in their personality. When you communicate with your interlocutor, do not talk only about yourself and your positive qualities, ask your friend about his life, plans for the future, what he is interested in. Such an approach to a person will win him over to you.
5. Always be honest and open. Most of all, people respect others for loyalty, honesty, kindness and openness. Never be hypocritical and do not put on someone else's mask. It is best to tell the truth to a person's face than to throw mud at him and gossip behind his back. Charming people are always open and sincere.
6. Treat people the way they want to. It is a very erroneous judgment for many that a person should be treated the way you would like to be treated. Everyone is different, and treating everyone the same is simply not right. Some are too vulnerable, others are proud, someone is always cheerful, and someone, on the contrary, is gloomy, but each of them would like to be treated and acted exactly as they want. A charming person immediately knows how to recognize, so he easily adapts to him.

1. Learn to smile and enjoy life. If you want people to connect with you and reach out to you, stop frowning and showing a displeased look. People around love cheerful, joyful and kind personalities, they will never change them for angry and dull people. After all, a smiling person and his joyful laughter always causes a response, therefore, they will want to communicate with just such people.

Naturally, charming and nice people have their own problems, but they perceive them easily and try to solve them immediately. You can also easily attract people to you and become charming by listening to our advice. Subscribe to blog updates and get new useful tips: Visit the site, where there will be a lot of useful and necessary information.

Today we will talk with you about some things that will help you become more attractive to other people. Using the techniques outlined in this article, you will learn how to attract people to you with a magnet. Skill is a very important factor for and goals.

Of course, people who attract the attention of other people are certainly popular. They are at a fairly high level, they are happy and joyful people. And because of this, they feel their importance and belonging.

I am sure you have seen such people. And sometimes you think what is so special about them, why do they want to communicate with them so much, why do they throw themselves on their necks when they meet? And why am I not so popular, why don't girls / guys pay such attention to me? I also asked myself such questions. And I realized that the whole point is in themselves, in their attitude towards themselves and others.

How to become attractive?

And in general, if you want to understand what the secret of such people is, then just watch them. Watch their behavior, their speech, facial expressions. What are they talking about? Don't be afraid to be curious. In order to become attractive and learn to attract people to you You need to talk to such people. This is one way to understand why they are such favorites.

I know only a few reasons why people are not attractive to others. The first of these is privacy. You can deny it and tell yourself that you are always open to others, but people are unlikely to think so if you have a gloomy face on your face (as in the photo on the right). Tell me, do you want to approach a girl if the expression on her face says that she will kill you if you approach her? And then many girls complain, why don't guys pay attention to me? Look at your face and then ask yourself this question. And in principle, people are wary of people with gloomy faces. A gloomy face does NOT make a person attractive, and certainly repels them.

Another reason why they do not want to deal with you is your unsteady gait. I know one thing, people are magnetically drawn to confident people. Confidence is a sign of strength and, and people are now such that they do not want to be responsible for their lives. It's easier for them to follow someone. A confident person is easy to spot. This is not only his gait, this is his manner of talking, listening, expressing his opinion. Well, who wouldn't fall for this?

How can people attract people? In some cases, yes! But are you attracted to a person who looks down, his back is crooked, mumbles something under his breath, uncertain gestures and body movements? Well, of course not attractive.

How to attract people to you?

And appearance is half the battle. A person with a good appearance is sure to attract attention. Let's take girls as an example. At present, I am very surprised by them. Many girls are dressed as if they are gray office mice, their hairstyle says the same (photo on the left). And then they wonder why guys don't pay attention to me? Do you pay attention to such a simpleton? There are a lot of people like her and it's boring!

Even when I go to the gym, I see this there. All the girls there look like gray downtrodden mice. You don't want to go to those at all. They are dressed worse than they look. Like old ladies. But there is one person who pleases the eye. One blonde who visits this gym rarely, but aptly. She is tanned, walks in shorts, clothes of a pleasant color, her face radiates positive. All the guys just stare at her (including me), and the women look enviously.

Here it is, the power of appearance. This can include a figure. Again, if you take girls, then they definitely need to be slim in order to attract the attention of men. Women with extra pounds, of course, can be popular, but only if they have charm. Guys better have an athletic figure. For women, this is not directly important, but a lot of girls told me that they do not like squishy or pimples. So guys, pump your muscles.

I don't know if it's worth talking about hygiene. Follow the scent. A lot of people don't use deodorant because they think it's harmful. They're better off emitting stench within a radius of three kilometers. Many walk around with a dirty, uncombed head. And about the smell from the mouth, I generally keep quiet. Sometimes a girl seems attractive until you smell her breath. Bad smells cause bad associations in the brain, and the person begins to repel. Pleasant smells (perfume) evoke positive associations, and a person begins to attract. So watch your scents.

It's all about appearance. For maximum attractiveness, this is not enough. You also need to be able to communicate well. Usually... although not... all people like to talk about themselves and their problems. You will become a very attractive person if you can listen to all this. Yes, they will hang themselves on you, you will always be a welcome guest. And if you like this role, you are lucky.

Always and everywhere makes a person attractive. People with a sense of humor are always successful, they are the soul of the company, they are noticed. Why do you think this is happening? The answer is obvious. Firstly, all people strive to receive positive, joy,. Secondly, humor gives all this to a person. And as a result, people follow you in a crowd.

Erudition is the secret of attractiveness. Tell me, are you attracted to people with whom there is nothing to talk about? You ask them something, they will answer and are silent, like stumps. You want to run away from such a person and never see him again. So if you are so boring, start reading more, study different directions.

If you communicate with someone, then. When people complain to me, I want to become invisible. Have you noticed how a person's voice changes when he starts to complain? It hurts the ear. Communicate easily and do not talk about your problems, they are not interesting to anyone anyway!

So we figured out with you the secrets of attractiveness. I hope you understand how to become attractive and attract people to you. Start with the appearance, smile, then walk, and then the way you talk. And then success is guaranteed to you.

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